Signs You're Actually a Witch: Wisdom from an Old Soul Who's Been There

By Amira Asmodea

Well, hello there, dear soul. Pull up a chair by my fireplace, pour yourself some chamomile tea, and let this old witch share some wisdom with you. In my eighty years on this beautiful, mystical Earth – sixty of them spent practicing the craft – I've met countless folks who come to me with that same curious sparkle in their eyes, asking, "Amira, how do I know if I'm really a witch?"

Oh, honey, if you're asking that question, you're already halfway there! You see, being a witch isn't about cackling over cauldrons or riding broomsticks through the night sky (though I won't lie, I've tried both – the cackling's more fun than you'd think). Real witchcraft is about recognizing the magic that's been flowing through your veins all along, like a gentle river that's been waiting for you to notice its song.

After decades of helping people discover their inner witch, I've learned to spot the signs from a mile away. So grab that notebook you probably keep nearby (another witch sign, by the way), and let's explore the telltale markers that suggest you're one of us magical folk.

You're the Dr. Dolittle of Your Neighborhood

Land sakes, if I had a nickel for every time someone told me, "Amira, the strangest thing – animals just seem to... understand me," I'd have enough coins to fill my moon-blessed cauldron!

When you're a natural witch, animals recognize something in your energy field that draws them like moths to a flame. It's not just that you love creatures – goodness knows plenty of non-witches adore their pets. No, what we're talking about here is different. You're the person who has deep, meaningful conversations with your cat and somehow knows they're responding. Stray dogs follow you home like you're the Pied Piper. Birds perch near your window and seem to be delivering messages (and sometimes, dear, they actually are).

I remember when I was about your age – oh, who am I kidding, everyone's younger than me now! – I noticed that even the most skittish woodland creatures would approach me during my forest walks. Deer would pause in their grazing to lock eyes with me, and I swear on my grandmother's crystal ball, they were sharing their ancient wisdom through those soulful gazes.

This connection extends beyond warm-blooded friends too. You might find yourself apologizing to spiders before gently relocating them, feeling genuinely upset when you accidentally step on an ant, or having strong emotional reactions to nature documentaries. Your soul recognizes that all living beings are part of the same cosmic tapestry.

Your Empathic Abilities Could Power a Small Town

Oh, my dear sensitive soul, do you walk into a room and immediately feel the emotional temperature? Can you sense when someone's hurting even when they're wearing their biggest smile? Welcome to the wonderful, sometimes overwhelming world of being a natural empath!

This gift – and it truly is a gift, even when it feels like a burden – is one of the strongest indicators of witchy blood. You see, we witches operate on a different frequency than most folks. We're naturally tuned into the energetic undercurrents that flow between all living things.

But here's something I learned the hard way, spending my younger years feeling drained and emotionally battered: you need to learn to protect your energy, sweetie. Imagine yourself surrounded by a bubble of pure, protective light each morning. Visualize it in whatever color feels strongest to you – I prefer a lovely lavender hue myself. This simple practice will help you experience others' emotions without absorbing them into your own energy field.

You're a Curator of Earth's Treasures

Chuckles warmly Now, don't go feeling embarrassed about your collections, dear one. So what if your friends tease you about having more rocks than a geology museum? Those aren't just pretty stones – they're earthly allies that have chosen to come home with you!

Every witch worth her salt has what I like to call "treasure hoarding tendencies." We collect shells from meaningful beach walks, smooth stones that whispered to us on mountain trails, pressed flowers from special moments, and enough crystals to stock a metaphysical shop. Non-witches see clutter; we see a carefully curated collection of energy allies.

Each item in your collection carries its own story and vibration. That piece of driftwood from your first solo camping trip? It holds the energy of independence and self-discovery. Those autumn leaves you pressed in your journal? They're reminders of life's beautiful cycles of change and renewal.

Don't let anyone make you feel silly about your collecting habits. You're unconsciously gathering tools for your magical practice, creating a physical library of energetic resources that you'll draw upon for years to come.

The Moon is Your Dearest Friend

If you find yourself stepping outside during every full moon like you're answering an ancient call, congratulations – you're moon-blessed! This lunar connection runs deeper than simply appreciating a beautiful night sky. You probably feel the moon's phases in your very bones.

During the new moon, you might feel introspective and drawn to set intentions. As the moon waxes, your energy builds along with hers. The full moon finds you energized, perhaps a bit restless, maybe even having more vivid dreams. And as she wanes, you naturally turn inward, releasing what no longer serves you.

I've been tracking moon phases for over fifty years, and I can tell you that this natural rhythm is one of the most reliable indicators of witchy nature. Your ancestors danced under these same moons, planted their crops by lunar cycles, and understood that we're intimately connected to our celestial companion.

Synchronicities Are Your Daily Bread

Do you see 11:11 on clocks more often than mathematically possible? Do meaningful coincidences seem to follow you around like a devoted puppy? Oh, honey, the universe is trying to have a conversation with you!

When you're operating on witch frequency, you become more aware of the patterns and connections that most people miss. That book falling off the shelf and landing open to exactly the page you needed to read? The stranger who mentions the exact solution to a problem you've been mulling over? The song that plays on the radio right when you need to hear its message? These aren't accidents – they're the universe's way of sending you little love notes.

I've learned to pay attention to these cosmic winks and nods. They've guided me through some of life's biggest decisions and smallest daily choices. The more you notice and acknowledge these synchronicities, the more they'll appear in your life.

Crystals Speak Your Language

Whether you fully understand crystal healing or you simply find yourself drawn to these earthly treasures, there's something about crystals that resonates with your soul. Maybe you have a favorite stone that you carry in your pocket like a talisman. Perhaps you find yourself inexplicably drawn to certain colors and textures in rock shops.

You don't need to memorize the metaphysical properties of every crystal to work with their energy. Sometimes it's as simple as feeling calmer when you hold a piece of smooth amethyst or feeling more grounded when you wear that beautiful piece of hematite jewelry.

Trust your intuition when choosing crystals. I always tell my students: "Let the crystal choose you." That piece of rose quartz that keeps catching your eye? It's probably trying to tell you something about self-love. That clear quartz that seems to glow when you hold it? It's ready to amplify your intentions.

Nature is Your Cathedral

If you feel more spiritually connected in a forest than in any traditional religious building, you're experiencing what I call "earth-based spirituality." The natural world doesn't just inspire you – it feeds your soul in ways that man-made spaces simply cannot.

You probably need regular doses of nature to feel balanced and centered. The ocean's rhythm matches your heartbeat. Mountains make you feel grounded and strong. Forests whisper secrets that only you seem to hear. Even a simple walk in a local park can shift your entire energy and perspective.

This connection often manifests as strong environmental consciousness too. You feel the Earth's pain when forests are destroyed, oceans polluted, or wildlife threatened. This isn't just intellectual concern – it's a visceral, emotional response to harm being done to your extended family.

Your Intuition Could Guide Ships Through Fog

We all have gut feelings occasionally, but your inner knowing operates on a completely different level. You might dream about people before they contact you, know which route to take to avoid traffic, or have immediate impressions about people that always prove accurate.

This intuitive gift often develops in stages. You might start by noticing small things – knowing who's calling before you look at your phone, sensing when someone needs a friend, or having hunches about situations that turn out to be spot-on. As you learn to trust these inner nudges, your intuitive abilities strengthen and expand.

I always tell people that intuition is like a muscle – the more you use it, the stronger it becomes. Start small. When you have a gut feeling about something, pay attention to it. Keep a journal of your intuitive hits and see how often they prove accurate. You might be surprised by your own psychic abilities!

You've Always Felt Beautifully Different

Here's something I want every budding witch to understand: feeling different isn't something to fix or hide from. It's your strength, your gift, your unique contribution to this world's tapestry of souls.

You were probably the child who preferred fairy tales to cartoons, who collected unusual objects, who felt most comfortable in quiet spaces. Maybe you were drawn to mythology, astrology, or stories about magic when your peers were interested in more conventional topics.

This sense of being different often comes with its challenges. You might have felt lonely or misunderstood at times. But as you grow into your witchy nature, you'll discover that there's an entire community of like-minded souls who understand your rock collections, your moon phase tracking, and your deep conversations with houseplants.

Practical Spellcrafting: When and How to Work Your Magic

Now, let's talk about something practical, shall we? You might be wondering, "Alright, Amira, I recognize myself in these signs. But what do I actually do with this witchy energy?"

Oh, sweet child, the world of spellcraft is vast and beautiful! But before you start mixing potions or casting circles, let me share some wisdom I've gathered over the decades.

Timing Your Magic

The most powerful spells are worked in harmony with natural cycles. Here's what I've learned about magical timing:

New Moon Magic: This is your time for new beginnings, setting intentions, and planting seeds (both literal and metaphorical). The energy is quiet, receptive, and perfect for introspective work.

Waxing Moon Magic: As the moon grows fuller, work spells for growth, attraction, and building energy. This is when I do my abundance magic, love spells, and anything that requires drawing energy toward me.

Full Moon Magic: The most powerful time for spellwork! Full moons are perfect for protection spells, divination, charging your crystals, and any magic that requires maximum energy. But be careful – emotions run high during full moons, so make sure your intentions are clear and positive.

Waning Moon Magic: As the moon decreases, focus on banishing, releasing, and cleansing work. This is when I do my cord-cutting spells, house clearings, and anything that involves letting go of what no longer serves.

Day-of-the-Week Magic

Each day carries its own energetic signature:

Monday (Moon day): Intuition, dreams, feminine energy
Tuesday (Mars day): Courage, protection, conflict resolution
Wednesday (Mercury day): Communication, travel, learning
Thursday (Jupiter day): Abundance, expansion, legal matters
Friday (Venus day): Love, beauty, relationships
Saturday (Saturn day): Binding, banishing, serious business
Sunday (Sun day): Success, healing, masculine energy

Essential Spellcrafting Principles

After sixty years of practice, I can tell you that successful spellwork isn't about fancy ingredients or complicated rituals. It's about intention, belief, and working in harmony with natural forces.

Clear Intention: Before you begin any spell, know exactly what you want to achieve. Vague intentions create vague results. Instead of "I want things to get better," try "I want to attract a fulfilling job that pays me $X per month."

Emotional Alignment: Your emotions are your magical fuel. If you're trying to work a love spell while feeling bitter about past relationships, you're sabotaging yourself. Make sure your emotional state matches your magical goal.

Gratitude: Always begin and end your spellwork with gratitude. Thank the universe, your spirit guides, the elements – whatever feels right to you. Gratitude raises your vibration and shows respect for the forces you're working with.

Release and Trust: After casting a spell, you must release it and trust the universe to handle the details. Constantly worrying about results actually interferes with your magic. Cast your spell, then let it go.

Simple Spells for Beginners

Let me share a few gentle spells that are perfect for those just beginning their magical journey:

Daily Protection Spell: Each morning, visualize yourself surrounded by protective white light. Say: "I am safe, I am protected, I walk in light throughout this day." Carry a small piece of black tourmaline or obsidian in your pocket for extra protection.

Abundance Blessing: On the new moon, place a green candle next to a small dish of cinnamon and a few coins. Light the candle and say: "As this flame grows bright, so does my prosperity. Opportunities flow to me with ease and grace." Let the candle burn down safely, then carry one of the coins in your wallet.

Love Drawing Spell: On a Friday during the waxing moon, write down the qualities you want in a partner (not a specific person – that's manipulation, not magic). Fold the paper and place it under a piece of rose quartz. Say: "I attract love that is healthy, reciprocal, and true. May the right person come to me at the perfect time."

Cleansing Ritual: When you feel energetically heavy or your space feels stagnant, burn some sage, cedar, or palo santo. As the smoke rises, visualize it carrying away all negative energy. Say: "I release what does not serve my highest good. My space is cleared, my energy is pure."

Growing Your Practice

Remember, dear one, becoming a skilled witch is a lifelong journey, not a weekend workshop. Start small and build gradually. Keep a magical journal to track your spells, moon phases, dreams, and synchronicities. Read books by respected authors in the field. Most importantly, trust your own intuition about what feels right for your practice.

Some witches work with herbs, others prefer crystals. Some love elaborate rituals while others practice simple, everyday magic. There's no single "right" way to be a witch. The most important thing is that your practice feels authentic and nurturing to your soul.

A Word About Safety and Ethics

Now, let me put on my stern grandmother hat for a moment. With magical power comes responsibility. Never work magic to manipulate or harm others. What you send out into the universe will return to you threefold – this isn't just New Age philosophy, it's a law of nature I've witnessed countless times.

If someone has wronged you, focus on protection and justice rather than revenge. Trust that the universe has its own way of balancing things out. Your job is to stay in your lane and work for the highest good of all involved.

Also, magic should complement, not replace, practical action. Cast a spell for healing, but also see a doctor. Work magic for abundance, but also update your resume and apply for jobs. The universe helps those who help themselves.

Embracing Your Magical Nature

If you've recognized yourself in these signs, congratulations! You're awakening to a part of yourself that's been waiting patiently for acknowledgment. This isn't about becoming someone new – it's about remembering who you've always been.

Start small. Pay attention to moon phases. Notice the messages in your dreams. Trust your intuitive hunches. Talk to your plants (they're excellent listeners). Collect stones that speak to you. Most importantly, be gentle with yourself as you explore this new aspect of your identity.

You're joining a lineage that stretches back to the beginning of human civilization. Every culture has had its wise women and cunning men, its healers and seers, its bridge-builders between the mundane and magical worlds. This is your heritage, your birthright, your gift to the world.

My Story and Invitation

You know, I've been practicing the craft for sixty years now, and I've seen so many changes in how people view witchcraft. When I was young, we had to be secretive, whispering our wisdom in hidden circles. Now, I'm delighted to see young witches proudly sharing their knowledge and supporting each other openly.

I've spent decades studying different magical traditions, from European folk magic to Native American wisdom, from ceremonial magic to kitchen witchery. I've written several books on the subject (you can find my biography and complete works on my website), and I continue to teach and guide seekers from around the world.

What brings me the greatest joy is watching someone discover their magical nature for the first time. That moment when the light of recognition dawns in their eyes, when they realize they're not strange or different in a bad way – they're magical! It's like watching a butterfly emerge from its chrysalis.

Keep Exploring, Keep Growing

This article is just the beginning of your magical education, my dear. The world of witchcraft is vast and endlessly fascinating. Read everything you can get your hands on, but remember to filter everything through your own experience and intuition.

Some authors I highly recommend for beginners include Scott Cunningham, Starhawk, and Raymond Buckland. For those interested in green witchery, explore the works of Ellen Dugan and Arin Murphy-Hiscock. If you're drawn to kitchen witchery, Patricia Telesco's books are wonderful resources.

Join online communities of like-minded souls. Many of my students have found wonderful support in Facebook groups and Instagram communities dedicated to witchcraft and paganism. Just remember to use discernment – not all advice is good advice, and some people are more interested in showing off than genuinely helping.

Most importantly, trust yourself. Your intuition is your best guide in this journey. If something doesn't feel right to you, don't do it. If a practice or belief resonates deeply with your soul, explore it further. You are your own best teacher.

Let's Stay Connected

I'd love to continue this conversation with you! You can find me sharing daily wisdom and magical tips on my social media channels:

Facebook: Follow me /amiraasmodea for daily inspiration, moon phase updates, and live Q&A sessions where I answer your burning witchy questions.
Instagram: @amiraasmodea – where I share beautiful photos of my magical tools, garden herbs, and behind-the-scenes glimpses of this old witch's daily practice.

I also offer personal consultations and spell work for those who need a little extra magical assistance in their lives. Whether you're dealing with matters of the heart, career challenges, or spiritual growth, sometimes having an experienced witch in your corner can make all the difference.

You can reach me directly at amiraasmodea@hotmail.com. I personally read and respond to every email, though sometimes it takes this old witch a few days to get back to everyone.

Remember, sweet soul, you are more magical than you know. Trust in your gifts, honor your intuition, and never be afraid to let your witchy light shine brightly. The world needs your particular brand of magic now more than ever.

With love, light, and abundant blessings,

Amira Asmodea Wise Woman, Witch, and Friend to All Seekers

"Magic is not about having power over others, but about recognizing the power within yourself and using it to create a more beautiful world." - Amira Asmodea